My wife and I have been together for almost 18 years, and married for 12 of those. We have two beautiful kids, a boy and a girl aged 5 & 7 years, and we both grew up and reside in Northern Ireland. We have always enjoyed a healthy and passionate love life, and although we are not into anything really ‘out there’, we have generally been open to enjoying new experiences to keep things fresh and exciting. Most couples who have been together as long as we have will probably relate to how your sex life can go through periods of feast or famine; add in the ‘kids’ factor and you can find yourselves quite restricted when thinking about where, when and how you will next enjoy each other again!
Having said that I think we have done pretty darn well over the years. We enjoy sex with each other just as much as during those first rampant months (remember those?). In fact, our sex life has gotten better with time. We know each other so well now – what we like, what we don’t, what is off limits and we talk about things we would like to try next.
Which conveniently brings me to MLNP.tv. Let me be clear about this; like a lot of people we have made the odd home movie for ourselves in the past (which was a lot of fun, and if we’re being honest, a bit nerve wracking on the first viewing). But if you had told us a couple of years ago we would be sharing our #realworldsex on MLNP.tv we would have laughed it off.
We are far from being exhibitionists, but when the ‘fox’ in this relationship showed me an article in one of her glossy fashion mags about a lady who had uploaded a video to MLNP.tv and then suggested we give it a try, I was quite surprised. Surprised and a little excited.
We talked about it and it was clear we both found the idea scary, exciting, mysterious and a turn-on all mixed together, but as soon as we made the decision to give it a try, within days we were making our first video and uploading it with a mixture of satisfaction and sheer terror!
Those first few days after uploading were pretty nerve wracking….who will see it…will anybody watch it…..will they hate it, love it, or not really care. We were both equally terrified of someone seeing it, and of no-one wanting to see it! And then while checking our account one night we saw that it had been rented 6 times, then 10, 15, 30 and so on. And you know what, it felt good. It felt good that with all our insecurities, etc, that people out there were renting our video, and for some reason the intimate nature of what we were sharing wasn’t as much of an issue anymore. In fact the idea of others enjoying watching us was actually quite exciting!
Since then we have uploaded 6 other videos. We have had so much fun making them, watching them and then sharing them. As a couple, porn has never been part of our sex lives so what we upload isn’t influenced by what we watch, or read. It is simply what we feel like doing at the time. Sometimes the ‘Fox’ likes to dress up (and she looks fantastic), sometimes we like to try something new that one of us has suggested, and most of the time we forget about the camera whirring away somewhere in the corner of the room. But most of all it is fun, and passionate, and intimate, and loving, and a really big turn on for us both!
So far our experiences have been so positive. Sometimes we find ourselves wondering about which of our videos have been rented the most, or what we would like to try next. As yet we haven’t rented other members videos; we are going to, and want to, but again it is something we will do when we are ready to share that experience together.
Congrats to all of you who have shared your own experiences; it gives us confidence when we see other ordinary people like us who are willing to share their imperfections and fumblings!
We would also like to say it has been a pleasure dealing with all the MLNP elves; It has been so easy and comfortable exchanging info and advice with Sarah and the team. It has surprised us how comfortable it is talking with someone on the other side of the Atlantic about subjects of, well, an intimate nature; and we can honestly say it has made the entire process very rewarding.
Oh, and we can’t not mention the added bonus of the MLNP earnings. I mean for doing something that is such fun…really? We are about to receive our first payment and are so excited. I feel a new camera might be the order of the day!!
Well, thanks for reading. I hope this has given you all a little more insight into who we are and why we are members of the MLNP family. We are looking forward to sexy new experiences with the site and look forward to watching it grow and develop in the coming months (and hopefully years). And for those of you out there still debating about whether to give it a try, go for it, we’re so glad we did.