Pro-sex. Pro-porn. Pro-knowing the difference.

Porn can be a great way to delve into a fantasyland, but it’s a terrible means of sex education

By Kara Price



 

I’m a retired porn star and I like porn. I think regular old porn is a good thing. I think rough porn is a good thing. I think lesbian porn, gay porn, straight porn, kinky porn, and romantic porn are great! I think (almost) all porn is good for the people who watch it because it allows them to explore their fantasies.

Porn is a great way to delve into a fantasy land, but it’s a terrible means of sex education. Porn shows us the possibilities. It shows us that we can have sex in crazy positions. It shows us that girls can squirt and that anal sex can be pleasurable. But porn doesn’t show us how to get into those crazy positions, how to learn to squirt, or how to have safe, pleasurable anal sex.

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Fans and friends often ask me how to play with anal toys and how to have anal sex. Often, they tell me that they tried to finger their partner’s bum or tried to have anal intercourse, but couldn’t get the cock/toy/finger in or didn’t think it felt good. In almost every case, I learned that the couple went right to the sex without much prep.

An anal porn scene starts after the performer cleans out her bum with a series of small warm water enemas and stretches herself with a toy or with her fingers. Often, the performers will get busy on set before filming so they can take their time with the first penetration.

On set, routines vary from porn star to porn star but everyone does something to prepare for anal sex before walking on set.

When we watch an anal porn scene we only see the hottest parts. We see a very horny seeming lady and delivery boy go from discussing pepperoni pizza *bow chicka wow wow* to stuffing his massive cock into her bum without much foreplay. We don’t see how porn stars make this happen.

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We don’t see all the prep that goes into these stunts, so we think that human bodies are supposed stretch on command and wonder what’s wrong with us if sex is more complicated than “open sesame.”

I talked to Lily Cade about this issue and we decided to make a how-to-anal movie that shows how we prepare for and have anal sex. We both really love anal sex and wanted to debunk the myth that anal sex is only pleasurable for men or somehow degrading for women. In our movie we explain why we like anal sex, how we hit the g-spot while having anal sex, and how anal sex makes us orgasm really, really hard.

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We wanted to make a movie where we show everything that goes into an anal porn scene and everything we do before having anal sex in real life. We explain our enema cleaning routines. We show how to choose and use several kinds of sex toys and strap-ons. We talk about lube. We show how we warm up and stretch our bums. (Lily and I do this quite differently.) We communicate more than you’ll see in any porn, and eventually get a little carried away and bang each others’ brains out!

We hope that our #realworldsex video makes you want to try anal sex. Watch this video if you think anal sex is degrading, painful, or only for porn stars. I want to change your mind. Watch this video if you want to learn how to get in touch with your bum and have amazing anal sex.

Oh,and I almost forgot– you should watch this movie if you want to see me and Lily Cade have really hot #realworldsex for the first time in almost a year!

3 Responses to “Porn can be a great way to delve into a fantasyland, but it’s a terrible means of sex education”

    • Jack Han

      I never had anal sex before , actually I didn’t even had sex before, honestly, but I do like it when girls squirt, it’s unbelievable, hope that one day I can try it with someone.

      Reply

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