Below is a great post we received from 22 year old, UK-based MLNP.tv member, harmz. He loves the movie Don Jon just as much as we do!
“I love how in my life how I now understand the difference between real sex and porn sex. Real sex is about connection and it’s all about LOVE. It’s about loving your partner and feeling the connection because it feels so much better. I would watch porn before and try to imitate the scenes with escorts only to have a empty feeling in my stomach. Something never quite felt right when I would watch porn. It seemed masturbating to porn felt better than the actual sex.
Now I’ve discovered its like watching a soap opera, everything is scripted and rehearsed. It’s basically meant for entertainment purposes. It’s like when you watch an action movie you don’t expect to be leaping thousands of feet in the air off a building and doing somersaults. I think people should be educated on sex and what real sex actually feels like. Cause when you actually do it you discover its nothing like what you’ve been watching.
Don Jon is such a cool movie and it gives such a important message through its awesomeness. I so could relate to it, being that horny porn guy wanting to have sex with a girl just cause she had a nice ass in leather pants. However when it would come to the sex they’d be no connection and I would think after sex is that all there is?
Well there is more to it, you can’t beat those happy times when your in love with someone and you want to share your soul with them. You can’t beat love sex. Having sex before it would feel like I’d rather be shoving my penis down a piece of meat whilst watching porn or have sex with a blowup doll. Sex without love is merely exercise. It’s like just having a workout. Besides sex isn’t even much fun to watch anymore cause it’s fake like WWF. I’m not against porn I just see it as art and way different than how real sex is. I can’t wait to have a loving girlfriend that I can enjoy beautiful loving passionate steamy sex with.”
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