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I’m a 26 year old guy and I think reality is a beautiful thing

Have we mentioned how much we love our community? We absolutely LOVE our community of MLNP members! We recently received this email and had to share it with you. Getting emails like this definitely brighten up our days and really embody the response we hope to inspire!

“I’m a 26 year old male. Because of the PTSD I live with, sex is a great way to ease the anxiety if only for a little. However, it was when I entered a real relationship with a real emotional connection that the stability in the bedroom and in the emotional world gave me the most ease. There was a lot of play in the bedroom and a lot of openness and honesty. The relationship has since ended, a decision I do not regret, but the stability hung in the air for a while after, making it hard to return to random hookups.

Your website is informative in all of the things I learned from random hookups and from wanting to learn what my partners were into and how best to enjoy my time with them as well as make sure they enjoyed their time with me.

Reality is a beautiful thing. I found constant communication in the bedroom to be extraordinarily satisfying and helpful. As such I’ve learned a lot about sex, about the importance of trying different positions. About feeling the entirety of the bodies connecting, about kissing during sex, and even about teasing.

Dominance can be a lot of fun, but at the end of the night, vulnerability and acceptance in a physical and emotional setting sustains a deeper connection. I hope more men find access to this site and are open to listening to the many voices on it. While I still enjoy porn, it will never replace the intimacy and experience of a connected sexual bond.


Read more feedback like this in our #realworldinbox section!

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