Written by Gemma Askhem for Glamour. Originally published June 13, 2017.
How to find a better sexual partner
By Cindy Gallop, founder of MakeLoveNotPorn.com, the first social platform where couples can submit videos of their own sexual encounters – known as #realworldsex – and rent other people’s.
“We’re brought up to have good manners and a work ethic, but nobody ever brings us up to behave well in bed. I value kindness, generosity and honesty – in life and in bed – so I welcome kind, generous and honest partners. But, when it comes to sex, it’s amazing how we fail to demand the basic things (like generosity) that we demand in every other area of life. So, ask yourself what your life values are – be it kindness or curiosity or empathy. These are also your ‘sexual values’. Then, filter out sexual partners based on these things. You’ll never have happy, fulfilling sex if you don’t share the same sexual values.”
Read this article’s three other great sex tips here.